Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Goodbye Grandpa . . . .for now

On January 21, 1935 Richard Allen Porterfield was born, on May 7, 2010 he went home to his Father in Heaven. 
He was born and raised in Bellflower, California when it was still a small city with lots of open land that was wonderful for a curious young man to explore.
He grew up with a fishing pole in his hand and a rife on his back. He loved nature and shared that love with all. Roads and fences were meant to be ignored, and as far as he was concerned, fishing licences were an unnecessary detail. Life was meant to be lived and we were meant to laugh while living.
He was an old time skier, back when there were only rope tows. He told stories of skiing when you had the mountain to yourself and you knew the owner. I remember going to dinner with him to the restaurant at Sundance ski resort and seeing Robert Redford come in with his daughter. After dinner, he went over to Robert Redford, and as only he could do, talked to him about the ski resorts before it was Sundance. Grandpa was a ski instructor there, while going to BYU and just wanted to tell him how much he like the
 improvements that had been made to the resort. Mr. Redford was very nice about it and they had a very sincere conversation. I remember standing next to him so nervous, but he talked so calm and could have cared less that he was talking to a famous person.
Grandpa's family meant everything to him and he was great about spending as much time as he could with his family.
 His children all have great memories of family times together, camping trip and hunting trips to Mexico and Idaho. Great memories were shared at the funeral services of road trips, ski trips and scout outings. He loved music and was known for his massive stereo system. It was not uncommon to drive up to the house on Pecan and hear the stereo blaring outside. He loved good food, malts and his cars.
He adored his grandchildren and told each of them that they were his favorite, and he meant it and they believed him. When they called to talked to him he always listened and was very interested in what they had to say. He sincerely cared about their activities, their friends and their feelings. When my daughter's friend was baptised, he and Jane attended, because it was important to my daughter. When my son was playing college sports, grandpa would await his call to talk to him about the game.
When it was grandparents day at the elementary school, he and Jane were there every year, as long as grandpas health permitted. He was Santa Claus for my daughters 3rd grad class, and taught my boys about the stars and birds for scouts.
He had a contagious smile and a wonderful laugh. He loved to play jokes on people, sing, dance and wrestle with his kids, grand-kids and their friends.
While we were living in Germany we were lucky enough to have lots of visits and we will cherish those memories of time spent with him. 

Grandpa had not had good health for the last ten years or so and was diagnosed with a brain tumor in April. I am sad, but also grateful for the time we were able to have him in our earthly lives.
The only thing that grandpa loved more than his family was the Savior. He loved to talk to people about the Savior and share his testimony with them.
His funeral service was more of a family gathering with lots of memories shared by the people that loved him most.  One of my favorite quotes from the funeral is from Kraiger,  "My dad was my John Wayne". Grandpa will be missed by all he knew.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Sweetness

So maybe it's not "Us, day to day", more like now and then, but you get the idea.

I must share the sweetest thing of the day -

Two of our grandsons, Mack and Henry, are staying with us while their mom and dad are on a business trip. We came home from church today and did the normal stuff. After lunch, Henry (age 2) had decided to take in a little golf with his grandpa. He walked into the the living-room where Kim was watching the Masters and happily shouted "GOLF", and climbed up next to grandpa Kim to watch the game. He looked tired so I told him it was time for a nap, he replied "NO" and laid his head on a sofa pillow next to grandpa. I went and got his blanket thinking it would help him give into the idea of a nap, but I was told no again and this time he held his little pudgy hand up when he said it, but he took his blanket. He just wanted to watch golf with his grandpa; within 5 minutes he was sound asleep.
I wish little ones could stay sweet like this forever!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Change

You may have noticed that our blog title has changed, I love change, but if you know me you knew that. I have been thinking about starting a new blog, not for the family,just one of my own and as I was searching for unused blog titles I realized how over used our blog title was and it was time for a change. I didn't feel like using our name in the title, besides with the all the married kids, I blog about more that just Portefield's now, so we are now just "Us. . .day to day "



So tell me what you think. . .

Friday, February 12, 2010

Wallace "Ace" Morley Thompson

We are so happy to welcome our newest grand-baby into the world.
Wallace Morley Thompson, or "Ace" as his sports fan will know him.
Kaira Fern and Tyler had there third son on the 27th of January.
Life has been busy since this new little man entered our lives, but thank goodness
Little Wallace, as his big brother Mack calls him, is an angel baby, at least for now. Wallace's name is a link to Kaira Fern and Tyler's family blog. All the detailed info about this new bundle is there and great pictures that Kassey took at the hospital.
I spent Wallace's first night home with Kaira and Tyler, with Wallace sleeping next to me, but we quickly learn that Wallace loves his daddy the most and so I got the fun job of keeping the older boys busy. I have enjoyed spending lots have time with Mack and Henry in the last couple of weeks. They have had multiple sleepovers with uncle Kyle, nothing like a late night with all the guys. We have been on outings; our favorite one being with all the cousins to the Imagine Children's Museum of Everett.
The boys barely slowed down long enough for me to take pictures. Kloe, Karly and Kyle have all been big helps with the boys. Mack and Hank love their new brother and Mack has already let his mom know that he want 3 more Wallace's.